Leaving everything and everyone broken.Īlso, people are taught by media and stories to look for the perfect ideal, for a knight in armor or the proper maiden to save. To make you or your partner into a commodity is to ensure the relationship will burn out from the consumption of the relationship over time. To do this is to makes you or your a partner into a commodity and in that, you will consume your partner. Even worse, to measure yourself against others and then to find yourself failing to be worthy of love. How can you have true love, if you always measure the person you love?Īlways comparing a partner, to those who might be younger, smarter, more beautiful, fresher, newer: will always break your love. To do this is to fall into a trap! Do you see it? The right love, the best love, a pure love: Right, Best, True are statements of judgment, and within judgment, all love crumbles into dust. People try to measure and find the perfect love. The second trap in love is to love with judgment. If you need help working improve a relationship you can contact us directly for a session! I use this teaching to analyze the situation accurately and find answers that work. The two videos on this page will go into more details regarding the Tree of Love. Relationships also need harmony, clear communication, respect, compatible goals, and chemistry. Growth is only one element of a relationship. Love is the starting point of a relationship, and there exist five other elements that are required to support love.Ī relationship has eight distinct elements within it to create a lasting connection. The trap in modern culture is that people think affection is enough to build a lasting relationship.
Having helped thousands of people over the years, I created the Tree of Love teaching as a new way to understand relationships. To have a lasting relationship is to let love itself change and grow over time to match your needs and your partner’s needs in life. Love always represents a relationship, to that outside connection that makes you more, be it to a person, passion or even endeavor. Just because you love a person doesn’t mean you can give another person what they need in growth. Since what we each need to grow changes so much from person to person, the needs of a relationship won’t always match the needs of each person. Don’t focus on definitions that will always change over time. So knowing perfectly what is love, is not a valid question since it’s an ever changing question. Think about it for a second, what do you need to grow in life? You will be able to name a few things, but also you will miss other important elements. When a person asks what love is, they’re asking: what do they need to become more.
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